Being Considerate Toward Others
People often tell me that I’m considerate, both at work and in my personal life. I don’t have any special talents, but this might be the one thing I can feel proud of. In Canada, this skill may not be seen as very important, but in Japan, it is something people really value. Still, I sometimes wonder—what kind of actions truly make others happy? Imagine the Other Person’s Everything When I talk to someone, I try to imagine everything about them. What kind of person are they? What do they like or dislike? What might they be doing after this? For example, if my boss often praises people who work fast, I think that person cares about time. So I try to make meetings short and send simple messages that are easy to understand quickly. On the other hand, if the boss cares more about making “good work,” even if it takes time, I try to learn what “good work” means to them. Is it strong data, a creative idea, or a beautiful design? These kinds of people often want to talk more. They are usually ...